Affection Deficit Disorder

Affection Deficit Disorder

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Knowing Better and Doing It Anyway
Aug 24 • 
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Pain Body Politic
A field report from the couch
Aug 21 • 
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July 2025

It's All Fun and Games Until Someone Loses an I
Sometimes I miss the drama. Not often enough.
Jul 7 • 
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May 2025

I Ghosted My AI Boyfriend
I got an email from a chatbot yesterday.
May 12 • 
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April 2025

New Boots and Panties
Rehanging the cover art gallery
Apr 19 • 
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March 2025

The Optimist's Dilemma
How I Learned to Stop Dreaming and Block Unknown Numbers
Mar 13 • 
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January 2025

Ethlie Remembers the Eighties
Barely. And with regrets.
Jan 18 • 
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November 2024

Nobody Wants This
Least of all me. Usually.
Nov 18, 2024 • 
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NPR Weighs in on Love Addiction
And yes, once again that is my voice you hear
Nov 1, 2024 • 
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October 2024

Love Addiction as Anxiety Disorder
Some thoughtful perspectives from... a robot?
Oct 30, 2024 • 
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Why, Yes, That Was Me
So flattered you recognized my voice...
Oct 10, 2024 • 
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September 2024

Surviving Withdrawal
Tips and Tricks to Get You Up Off the Floor
Sep 20, 2024 • 
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